Hey dude.....

Yesterday one of friend asked me - hey dude, did you stop writing blogs now a day? First I just checked beside me, is that someone else is there or not, and then I realized that I become DUDE now days. But this was enough for me to bring myself back at ‘http: //vaibhavkaman.blogspot.com/’. So I replied him – no dude (actually good word, isn’t it?), it’s not like that. Then he said – I am serious Yaar.

Now question came to my mind why he became serious now? Again my brain started thinking (sometimes mistakes also happens) towards this word – ‘serious’ or ‘seriously’.

This word seriously came in different ways in my life also. One day (actually it was One night) one of my friend drunk lot & said to me that - hey man (no dude this time), you can achieve a lot in life, you have capabilities but you are not serious towards life. This makes me think, whether this is compliment or comment? Whatever it may be, but bottom line is - I am not serious. So is this thing good or bad? Even I don’t have solid answer for this.

But I remember one incident, when I was kid the some relative came to my home & informed my mom that my Grandpa is serious, & some days later my grandpa passed away. Some time later my Aunt was serious & she also passed away. So by these incidents it seem that being serious is not good for health. But now question arise ‘why everyone says – you should be serious in life?’

So I decided to give 1 more thought to this word seriously.

Yes, I got one more incident (actually it happen last year only) to find a conclusion - one of my friend fall in love (I never seen him to fell down anywhere but everyone say this). So one fine day her girl friend (later her wife) asked him – ‘Hey are you serious about me? Should we marry to each other now?’ & my friend said - ‘Yes’ (thanks god, he didn’t read my starting examples for word serious in this blog). And within 2 weeks they get married & were staying together happily. Cool Na?

But sometimes (for showing myself +ve I am not using word ‘Many times’ here, but actually I wants) that simple YES creates very serious problems also in these kinds of cases. Another of my friend is really suffering his marriage life & due to only a single yes, both (my friend & his wife) are now facing serious problem in life by being more serious in life.

Now after reading this blog you may think, whether I was serious while writing this blog or not? Even I don’t know yet, but one thing is sure that it’s impossible to write such a non-sense blog after any serious thinking, so don’t be serious, as all of you know that I am also not at all a serious person by nature also.

So dear friends please don’t be serious after reading, but just remember one thing –

“Don’t become serious in life, but be always serious about life” – Vaibhav Karandikar